Work, come home drained, numb out, repeat. Find out what that routine is covering.
Most of us were rewarded for being very good at one thing. The career, the business, the craft.
The part of life we neglected didn't send a bill straight away. It taxed everything else quietly.
The energy we don't have at the end of the day, the friend we stopped calling, the marriage running on what's left over, the body we keep meaning to get back to.
Then we try to fill the gap with drink, screens, more work or more distraction, and it never quite fills.
“Lone wolves do not make good pacts.”
A life is a system. When one area runs empty it drains the other six, so closing that one lifts the whole wheel.
Every habit a man fills the gap with is reaching for something good: peace, love, the feeling of being OK. The Whole Man starts by naming what is actually missing, in your own words, then measuring it.
Most men work on mind, body and money, and leave mission, meaning and brotherhood undone. The Whole Man works on the whole wheel.
Do it as a brotherhood. Men who back your weak spots with their strengths, and you theirs. No gurus, no alphas: you judge your progress by your own measure.
The ebook that names what is missing and makes the case for the whole man. Yours to keep.
Taken before the live session, so you arrive knowing your weakest area.
One page for each area of a whole man’s life. Score where you stand, pick a practice for the morning, the day and the evening, keep it for seven days, then score again.
One of the shortest, most emotional stories you will read, written with how the brain changes in mind. It takes a man from lazy bias to clear conviction, in under an hour. A new kind of writing, made to undo the programming that keeps men stuck, so you finish it clear on the path forward.
Gavriel Shaw and Joshua Seymour with a small circle of men. We have a couple of sessions planned: attend the upcoming one, or get the recording.
Where the session details, the replay and the men live.
Our team builds your first offer with you: the offer itself, its sales page, checkout, and publishing on Oriva. Then we add what keeps it selling: email follow-up for every customer, split testing on your sales page, traffic tracking, and an AI sales assistant that chats with your visitors.
The service is $800. The first 10 men who buy The Whole Man bundle get it free when they attend the live workshop. Delivered within 30 days.
10 still available if you claim your Whole Man bundle nowSee the $800 service“I find your maps to life very useful and enlightening to say the least. You put life in perspective. Once you see it you can see your own life at a glance and will know where you need to improve. I find it very educating. Thank You.”
“Wow Gav. I cant believe u wrote that. You answered many of my conflicts that I have battled through unconsciously for many years. That article defines the solutions to many things that I have done wrong throughout the years. Great lesson learned. I am going to be reading that over and over again.”
“Once again, you hit me where I live! All my life I have been rejecting my programming and knew there was a better way”
“Very very well done! I wish I had found your site a year ago! Thanks to your handbook, I will never be able to hide behind ignorance again. I will know that if I don't make progress from here it is because I choose inaction. I can tell you put your heart, soul, and brain into it.”
“Been told I could do anything I wanted, but never knew the right path to take. I believe you have the truth about life. Many thanks”
“As I get further into your read (only 1/4 read so far) I can feel something starting to stir inside me. I have one word right now that best describes – AWAKEN”
Two sliders. Nothing you enter leaves this page.
Your two numbers carry into your self-assessment on this device, which then shows which of the seven areas the gap comes from.
These figures are your own estimate. Gavriel does not promise to recover them.
Why only $9.95? This is the founding round of the Whole Man Brotherhood. We are pricing it low so the first circle of men can form quickly, and so we can gather honest testimonials from the men who go through it first. Members who join after the launch will pay full price.
“With the Heart of a Lover, the Mind of a Poet, the Body of a Key Maker and the Hands of a Gardener… What am I… if not a man?”
Gavriel Shaw is a certified HeartMath and mBIT coach and is certified in NLP. Joshua Seymour is a Modern Family Office Principal: "Be, Do, & Have More Gains With Less Pains. Enrich your family, legacy, and dynasty so you prosper happily, forever." Between them: the highs, the lows, and what each of them neglected on the way.
The Whole Man is built on three things: Gavriel’s Cognitive-Motivational Bias Matrix, a map of about 175 cognitive biases drawn from cognitive psychology, social psychology and neuroscience; years of one-to-one work with clients; and his work as a corporate director and tech founder.
Three hours online, at the date and time shown at the top of this page. Seats are limited, and sales close at midnight Eastern the night before. We have a couple of sessions planned: attend the upcoming one, or get the recording.
We have a couple of sessions planned: attend the upcoming one, or get the recording. The breakout circles are never recorded, and nothing said in them leaves the room.
Only what you choose. Your self-assessment answers are private to you, Gavriel and Joshua, and nothing said in a breakout leaves the room.
No. Meaning is one of the seven areas, and you name it yourself: faith, philosophy or plain conviction.
No hidden upgrade. As soon as you pay, you go straight to your self-assessment to get started, and what you get for $9.95 stands on its own. For men who want to go further after the live session, we explain one option there, with no pressure and no countdown timers.
No. It is a men's program. If you are in crisis, call or text 988 in the US, or speak to your doctor.
Information is everywhere. The hard part is knowing who to trust, and sifting through the piles of it for what actually works.
We are driven hard to get out on top, keep up with our responsibilities, and still find a moment to relax. There is little left over.
Beyond family pressure and a boss’s demands, modern men answer to no one. For thousands of years, the men who excelled were always part of a brotherhood.
The Whole Man solves all three: curated information turned into ready-to-use systems on Oriva that save you the time and effort of organizing your thoughts, your plans and your gaps, and an accountability system you experience for yourself at Saturday’s live session.
The Whole Man Protocol: the Manifesto, your self-assessment and a Golden Ticket to the three-hour live workshop, for $9.95.